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African Insights – African Insights - Newsletter – March 2003
The African Bargaining Ritual…
Most of us, who live in the West, miss out on one of
the most delightful forms of entertainment known to man …the ancient ritual
of bargaining. Here most everything is pre-priced, pre-packaged,
pre-shrunk and pre-priced. The result is that we miss out on a lot of just
plain fun.
Just today I bought some watermelon, strawberries,
flowers, vegetables, all commodities that I would have to bargain for in
Africa, but here any attempt to do such would result in the manager being
called to the check-out stand to handle this strange man who was trying to
get a better deal…how sad.
I feel deprived of one of the great joys of my life,
the ancient ritualistic dance of bargaining. The moment you land in Africa,
go through immigration and customs and reach the street the dance of
bargaining begins. Taxi drivers will mill all around you wanting to be of
service, shouting out their prices, grabbing your luggage. Those drivers
would be very disappointed if you simply agreed to the first price they
offered you instead of looking at them while saying….”What do you think I am
– A tourist?”
Bargaining gets into your blood, it becomes the great
African addiction. It covers every aspect of life in Africa with a few
exceptions such as restaurants, gas stations and stores where things are on
a price list or pre-priced. Go however into the treat of all treats “The
great Owino Market in Kampala with its 30,000 vendors and you can bargain to
your hearts content for goods and services that meet your every need.
Nothing is pre-priced or pre-packaged; everything is subject to
negotiations. Let the fun begin…
Most westerner’s will go into a state of shock as they
enter a place like Owino Market in Kampala or the Tuesday Maasai
Market in
Nairobi. We are not used to tens of people shouting at us, hawking their
wares, services, prices and so on. We might even make the mistake of paying
a price that is far higher than what we could get it for and also miss out
on the fun of the interaction between buyer and seller something that is
absent as we purchase things in the west.
Should you be going to Africa soon, it is best you get
an introduction into this wonderful dance of bargaining so that when you get
there it will be a lot more enjoyable and profitable for you. To begin
with, leave your natural inhibitions behind, do some role-playing where you
learn the art of gestulating or making faces of sadness and disappointment
and voice fluctuation in order gain the best price in the situation. On top
of it all, don’t dress like the typical tourist in your Banana Republic
finest, that gives you away as a novice and open to exploitation.
Below you will find some of my memorable, personal
experiences in various situations of African life. Hopefully they will give
the head start into becoming a great African negotiator and bargainer.

Buying Things:
 | I was sitting in an outside restaurant with a BBC
Reporter from Leeds in the UK, having a nice Chinese dinner watching the
activities on the street around us in the Kabalagala area of Kampala when
a young boy approached us selling some kitchen knives. I did not need any
knives but could not resist the temptation to bargain and have some
pre-dinner fun. The boy asked for 15,000 shillings (1997 about 15
dollars). I counter offered with 5,000 shillings. His face became sad
and he said 13,000 and that was his best price. I came back with 5,000
shillings and he looked at me with eyes that were ready to tear and said
that such a price was not fair and he had to eat. I asked in turn if he
would sell these knives to his mother at such an unfair price as 13,000.
“Sure, my mother would pay such money,” was his reply. I came back with
“You think because I am a mzungu (westerner) I have lots of money, just
because my skin is white does not mean I am rich, underneath our skin
flows the same color blood, red, so you should give me a fair price of
7,000 shillings. Back and forth it flowed, my reporter friend thoroughly
enjoying the scene before him, so much so, that he recorded it for a later
broadcast on BBC. That night I became the proud of owner of a new set of
knives that I did not need, but the housekeeper, Ruth enjoyed using the
next day. The food came as I finalized our deal and I invited the young
boy to eat with us, something he enjoyed, all of us felt enriched by the
moment. |

 | My son Ryan was with me as went shopping for some
souvenirs at Tuesday Maasai Market in Nairobi. It not really a market
with stalls and things, but simply a hill by a roundabout just near
downtown where African Crafts are sold to
mostly tourists. It is called
Maasai Market but most of the people selling their wares belong to the
Kamba tribe known for their crafts but there will also be some Kiisi
selling soapstone carvings, Turkanas and a few Maasai with their walking
sticks, necklaces and bracelets. |
This was my son’s first visit and he did not
know what to expect, but I told him to let me do the bargaining otherwise
we might not get the best price.
The place was jam-packed with
sellers of carvings, gourds, trade beads, batiks and everything else
Africans could turn into hard cash. Just walking around amidst the shouts
of “Papa, buy this or that,” gets the blood flowing something one does not
get while walking the wide aisles of Wal-mart.
I was a regular at the Maasai
Market and recognized by some of the sellers. One woman in particular
offered me some delightfully carved candleholders and other items. She
named a price and I responded with a gasp. Having some acting in your
background can be of great help in bargaining, rolling your eyes, a gasp
here or there, throwing up of hands, are all techniques greatly appreciated
in Africa and I can assure you, returned in like manner. The woman was a
delightful Kamba who enjoyed the fine art of bargaining and we were rolling
along and getting nowhere, when I got out the ultimate weapon in
bargaining…the cash I was I willing to pay. I showed it to her and she
said, no, wanting the higher price…and then part two of the ultimate
bargaining tool…”walk a way.” Only once did the seller not come running
after me and I knew I had gone too low, but on this day…money and goods were
exchanged and contentment was felt by all.

 | Linoleum was needed and the best place to buy it was Owino
Market in downtown Kampala. Off I went into the belly of beast of
bargaining. This is not something for the novice, but for the shrewdest of
the shrewd. Here you can find anything from second hand clothing to tools,
from medicine to food, from radios to TV’s and more. My task was to buy 20
meters of linoleum and off I went to the section where the sellers of such
items dwelt. At the first stall I was able to obtain a good and fair price
per meter but as the young man began to measure out my linoleum I noticed
something rather strange, he was using 80 centimeters instead of the 100
which would be a full meter. He was shortchanging me, I smiled and allowed
him to do his thing and then said. “Now I need 20% off of the price since
you shorted me by 20%.” The surprised look on his face told it all, it was
charming, but no deal was consummated and I walked by with my full 20 meter
roll a few minutes later and we laughed at one another. |
 Kitu Kidogo – Just a
little something:
Not only does one need bargaining skills for goods, but in
dealing with everyone from the police to immigrations officials. Salaries
in East Africa are quite low and most officials try to enhance them by
getting a bit of kitu kidogo…a little something from the people they deal
with. It is the cost of doing business.
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I made an illegal u-turn in Nairobi returning
a rental car on my way to the airport and three policemen pulled me over. I
made the fatal mistake in telling them that I was in a hurry to catch a
plane to Kampala. They had me. The next thing I knew, I was on my way to
court and that could take the rest of the day. So with two policemen in the
car I stopped and turned to them. “I have a problem and maybe you can help
in this problem. I have a plane to catch, you have things to do – how can
make everyone happy.” Fifteen dollars (5 dollars for each official) later
I was on my way to the airport. (Since Mwai Kibaki came into power in Kenya
things are beginning to change. People are refusing to pay kido Kidogo and
even chasing police and taking the bribes they have collected as has been
reported in “The Nation.”…amazing)
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Bargai ning is dealing with people, it is not task
orientated but relational. It involves grace, kindness, a bit of humor,
cunning, acting and a lot of westerners feel uncomfortable doing it and
rather pay the full price and be on their way…”They do not know what they
are missing.”
It is not something you do gingerly. It is not like
putting your toes into the water of a pool and think that you have gone
bathing. It is diving into process and taking it in fully, enjoying the
moment and most of all the process. I hope you have an opportunity to put
some of these things into practice for yourself. Let me know how it goes.

The last deal in Africa…
 | I walked up to the British Airways counter in Kampala. My
luggage consisted of suitcases, wrapped tables and chairs, drums and much
more. I placed it all on the scale and prayed for grace. The limit was 70
pounds a suitcase going to North America. I knew I had lots more.
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The young woman behind the counter looked at
my ticket, took my British Airways Gold Membership Card and then looked at
the scale. She looked again and then turned to me and said, “You are
overweight.” I looked at her in astonishment, “Me, overweight?” “ No, not
you but your things are overweight by 60 kilos, you will have to pay.”
Once more, for the last time
the ancient dance of bargaining was entered into. Like the elders of old
bargaining for the price of a bride, so I too began to bargain using my
skills refined for some seasons. I told her that I was leaving Africa, not
to come back and I wanted to take part of Africa with me. I was taken
things that would remind me of Mama Africa. She understood, she smiled and
said. “In that case, I am making an exception, have a nice journey and
thank you for flying British Airways.
Now I go to stores where things are boringly
pre-priced, pre-packaged, labeled and no one knows of the fun one can have
bargaining. Here it is task orientation, the focus is a thing, there it is
a relationship formed that in some cases is much more enjoyable than the
purchase and as in the case of my kitchen knives, one might even buy
something one does not need, because one enjoys the ancient ritualistic
dance of bargaining with words and gestures…hope you get do so soon…jon
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